06 September 2006

一个字。心理游戏

昨天我贴了一则blog,里头只有一个“累”字。而且是个放大了700% 的“累”字。谢谢朋友们的回应与关怀,我感到非常的窝心。

其实,这是我常常给自己做的一个心理游戏。

我常爱把我的心情用一个字来代表,然后将它越变越大,再望着它久久。

原因,

1) 当我们望着越来越大的字的时候,我们就会产生一种错觉,越看越不懂是什么字。然后,再往后退,咦,从陌生的字又变回我们熟悉的字了。

领悟 –-〉
- 当我们把问题深入的研究一番,或将它放大来看,细细分析,很快的我们就不会觉得那是一个问题了。
- 记得庄子的其中一篇也有说到这个。蔡志忠还将它画为一个学射箭的人为了射中远方的一只蜘蛛,而望着蜘蛛直到蜘蛛变大了。

2) 同样的,当我们望着同一个字久久,我们就会产生一种错觉,越看越陌生。当你定睛再望一望,咦,由变回我们所熟悉的字了啊。

领悟 –-〉
- 当我们遇到问题的时候,不只不要害怕它,更要积极的面对它。那样,我们就不会让那问题干扰我们的思绪,问题就容易解决啦。
- 跟大家分享我的亲生经历。曾经常常发一个非常可怕的噩梦,梦里我是多么的孤独与无助。梦后总需一些时间来平复心情。我为了赶走噩梦,就自行进行冥想至那个梦,我强逼自己坚持处于那梦中直到我不再害怕。自从那次后,虽然还有梦到那个梦,但对我来说已不再是一场噩梦了。

各位不妨玩玩看。可能你会有不同的体验。

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Summary

One Word Mind Game

Yesterday I have posted a blog with only one word inside, “Tire”. Thanks to all my friends for their concern and caring. I feel glad for that.

I like to play this mind game whenever I’m facing any problem. I liked to write down a word which can represent my feeling or my problem. And then, I will make it bigger and bigger and stared at it for a while.

The reasons,

1) When we look at the bigger and bigger word, we will found that we are quite blur to the meaning of the word. Same theory applied to our life, when we are facing any problem, if you analyze the problem and break it to smaller parts, you will find that the solution easily.

2) When you look at the word for a while, you will found that the word unrecognized the meaning. The moral is, you shouldn’t feel fear to any problem and should try to solve it. When you look at the problem seriously, you are 50% closer to the solution.

Why don’t you have a try? Should you have other outcome that can share?

9 comments:

双喜妈妈 said...

对我来说不是那个字越大我越不认得,而是一个字一直写,写了好多遍,写得好像不认得了。

芳羽 said...

很不错的道理与启发,谢谢Frankie的分享!

关于你说无法订阅我的博客,抱歉,我也不晓得。极有可能是我的博客系统的问题。

至于那个“幽”或“悠”,呵呵,我比较习惯昏暗和沉静,毕竟闲适自得的生活难求啊!

幽- 僻静;隐蔽;沉静
悠- 久远;闲适怡然

Mee Ling said...

哇,這麼深奧,這麼多思想,厲害。對啊,接受現實是很重要的。

凡奇 Frankie said...

双喜妈妈,
我也常常会这样。不懂别人会不会也如此?

芳羽,
用的着就好了,这只是我的浅见。每个人都有他解决问题的方式。

我会再尝试订阅你的博客。

幽幽云烟,悠悠我心。

Mee Ling,
其实也非什么深奧思想啦,可能是我的表达能力有点问题,乱七八糟,对不起。

阿凯 said...

对我来说,我并不想太多,只要把握现在。

凡奇 Frankie said...

阿凯,
简单最好。我就是那种爱胡思乱想的人。哈哈。

Marine Lai said...

Dear Frankie,

First, there are some corrections to make;

Content of your blog:
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“The reasons,

1) When we look at the bigger and bigger word, we will found that we are quite blur to the meaning of the word. Same theory applied to our life, when we are facing any problem, if you analyze the problem and break it to smaller parts, you will find that the solution easily.

2) When you look at the word for a while, you will found that the word unrecognized the meaning. The moral is, you shouldn’t feel fear to any problem and should try to solve it. When you look at the problem seriously, you are 50% closer to the solution.”

They should be written as follows;

The reasons are:

1) When we look at the enlarge wording, we will blurr in finding the word’s meaning. Same theory that applied to our life when facing any problems. If we analyzed and break them into smaller parts, you will find solutions therein easily.

2) When you look at the word for awhile, you will not recognize the true meaning. The moral is you shouldn’t fear at any of your problems and should try to solve them. When you look at the problems seriously then you are 50% closer to the solutions.

My comment;

Well it is true to have your problems break into smaller parts which will be much easier to solve rather trying to solve them once and for all. Also as we are solving the problems bit by bit, in the progress we do can learn lots of experience and to improve the oneself confident. Sometimes one part of the problems solved will give you a lead to the other parts of the problem solving. Well these were my experience when face to face with problems occurred. Also do remember, a BIG problem is actually an accumulation of many small problems coz we humans tends to hide or run away from them as a choice. So it is important to solve the problem when it is small. Facing the problem and solve it is a good challenge in our lives and we could as well grow more mature in terms of our thinking and seeing things.

Well, that was my 1cent worth of opinions.

海鸟 said...

嗨!你最近好吗?
我觉得有时候把一些事情放大或仔细的观察反而会令自己迷失其中,看不到事情的整个真相或面貌。。如果你在深山的树林里,就不会看到山全貌一样。

凡奇 Frankie said...

海鸟,
说得也对,但我比较喜欢面对问题的时候,将它拆成很多小小的问题,在去解决。

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